{"product_id":"its-not-you-en","title":"It's Not You - EN - Ramani Durvasula, PhD - Hardcover","description":"\u003cp\u003eIdentifying and Healing from Narcissistic People\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt's not always easy to tell when you're dealing with a narcissistic person. One day they draw you in with their charm and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-esteem, and leave you wondering, What should I have done differently?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAs Dr. Ramani explains in It's Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing. Just as a tiger can't change its stripes, a narcissist wil not stop manipulating and invalidating you, no matter how much you try to appease them. The first step toward healing from their toxic influence, and to protect yourself from future harm, is to accept that you are not to blame for their behaviour.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDrawing on more than two decades of studying the landscape of narcissism and working with survivors, Dr. Ramani explores how narcissists hijack our well-being and offers a healing path forward. Unpacking the oft-misunderstood personality, she reveals the telltale behaviour patterns that indicate you may be dealing with a narcissist. Along the way, you'll learn how to become gaslight resistant, chip away at the trauma bonds that keep you stuck in the cycle, grieve the loss of these painful relationships, create and maintain realistic boundaries, discern unhelpful behaviors from narcissistic behaviors, and recover your sense of self after constant invalidation.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003ePersonal note: If you do not know anything about Narcissism this is the book for you, this is an absolute beginners guide into Narcissism and how to deal which such toxic people.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Arcane Archives","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":57823220367692,"sku":null,"price":15.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0831\/6374\/2540\/files\/Its_Not_You_Ramani_Durvasula_9780593492628.jpg?v=1781618830","url":"https:\/\/www.arcane-archives.nl\/products\/its-not-you-en","provider":"Arcane Archives","version":"1.0","type":"link"}